Not BakeSpace's fault that the term was co-opted a few decades ago by the BDSM community to denote their informal get-togethers, but hopefully no fetishists will show up ready to mingle and talk tech. Although that'd be kind of interesting.

There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to online dating, except probably this: if you go to a party, don't leave your phone unattended, especially if you're in the middle of getting to know someone via a dating site that has a very easy to use app.

For your reading pleasure, a example of what can unfold. Shenanigans begin at "McJew."

True or false, L.A.?

We report, you decide:

The trending topic of the day? #Donttrusther ("don't trust her"). All right, so maybe a few of you have had bad experiences with women. A first glance over the tweets coming in suggested people were imparting useful advice to one another, for example:

A common expression for certain, but do people actually believe it to be true? We asked Twitter and this is what we found.

For reasons we can't entirely comprehend #youneedanewboyfriend ("you need a new boyfriend") is trending on Twitter in Los Angeles. Despite being such a varied sample, we're seeing a very interesting consensus.

Picture a woman at a bar. She's sipping a drink and writing. You decide she's attractive enough to approach. Your choice is to a.) greet her and introduce yourself; b.) comment on something unrelated to her but relevant (such as the terrible storm outside or the drinks at the bar); c.) apologize for interrupting and ask her a question; d.) say something rude. Which do you do?

Proof positive that porn veteran Brittany Andrews, who made a comeback earlier this year as Samantha in New Sensations' Sex and the City XXX Parody, has a wicked sense of humor:

Black Swan, explained, courtesy of Attack of the Show's executive producer, Vince Ruth: