Edited by Audacia Ray

Alix Lakehurst: Real Porn from Chicago [Interview]

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Chicago-based adult model and writer Alix Lakehurst blogs and hocs her wares on her website We Could Be Naked. She's an interesting and honest voice in the adult industry - well worth reading, and not just because she shows off her boobs a lot.

Naked City editor Audacia Ray asked Alix about entering the porn biz in her 30s, being curvy, working in Chicago, and being an exhibitionist.

Audacia Ray: You came into modeling and the porn business later in life than the average porn girl – what drew you to the business? When you were in your early twenties, did you think you'd be doing porn in your thirties?

Alix Lakehurst: I spent my 20's drinking, smoking pot and doing coke. This sounds bad. I grew up in a very stable family, my parents loved me but I was always rebellious. The addiction came way before my foray into porn. I didn't start porn because I was raped, beaten, or abandoned. In fact my main decision to start getting naked was when I was completely sober.

Around 30 I met Mike McPadden- the one and only Selwyn Harris- who edits Mr Skin here in Chicago. He loved the way I talked very dirty. I was uninhibited, loved running around naked and getting my picture taken. I started writing for him.

I landed a coveted interview with Christy Canyon and couldn't believe how beautiful and centered she was. I met my porn idol, and I felt a kinship with her immediately.
Growing up with big boobs, I wasn't fond of them. But she made them sexy and real. I blogged my journey to that interview on Road to Christy Canyon and occasionally showed the comparison of our breasts. My popularity grew and I started We Could Be Naked. The modeling and porn offers followed. I don't work every day in fact I'm lucky if I get a paid job a month but I have no problem having a staple on my belly button. I mostly work on my site and what I want to accomplish with it.

To answer your question, in my twenties, I thought I'd be dead by my thirties.

Three more questions and their answers, plus more pictures, after the jump.

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Farewell to Regina Lynn and Sex Drive [Video]

Regina Lynn has covered the sex tech beat in a column called Sex Drive at Wired for the past five years - and today's column marks her last. She'll still be blogging at Regina Lynn's SexRev 2.0, but it just won't be the same. Regina's work is, for me, right up there with the sex columns by Tristan Taormino and Dan Savage - all three count among the columns I've been reading the longest.

The above video shows Regina giving three tips for sex online - I shot this at the Sex 2.0 conference in Atlanta and it didn't make it into the final Naked City TV episode about the event. These tips are based on Regina's new book, Sexier Sex: Lessons from the Brave New Sexual Frontier.

Also, note the pic of Regina in the title card - she's snuggling up to the Njoy Eleven!

--Audacia Ray

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Mona Rae Mason & The Transgender Project

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There's a lot of really excellent and inspiring activism and research happening with regards to transgender and transsexual populations. Here in New York, the National Development and Research Institutes has a transgender project that, according to its mission statement, "is designed to describe the economic, social and personal, family and workplace experiences of male to female trans-persons, how these experiences change over the course of our lives, and the impact of these experiences on our mental and physical health."

Naked City contributor Charlie Vazquez had some questions for NDRI's Mona Rae Mason about identity, being in the closet, and challenges that trans folks face.

Charlie Vazquez: So Mona, what is it that you do as an organizer and activist?
Mona Rae Mason: I work for National Development and Research Institutes and I’m the Field Coordinator for ‘The Transgender Project’, a longitudinal study of metro New York City’s male-to-female transgender population. This study is funded by The National Institutes of Health and is the first and largest of its kind for this community—almost six-hundred volunteer participants from all walks of life. I also serve on the Board of Directors of Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund, Inc. I’m very concerned with the homeless and hungry in our LGBT community—I’ve seen far too many young sisters who’ve come to me for their interview, with precious few clothes on their backs in bitter winter, to collect the meager $30.00 stipend we pay for interviews. As a result, I’ve organized and promoted several clothing and food drives and I also organize and promote NYC’s longest-running and free “transgender and friends” weekly get-together, currently at Nowhere Bar, on Thursday evenings.

Three more questions and their answers after the jump

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Marije Janssen: Feeling Pinched Between Progressive Sexuality and Reality in the Netherlands

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Saturday, June 21st marks the finale of the Pinched event series in Amsterdam. Billed as a festival exploring "sex, love, and countercultures," the events have brought together European pornographers, artists, cultural theorists, and fun loving sex and culture nerds at talks, screenings, and late night dance parties.

Held at one of Amsterdam's premiere indie music and performance venues, Paradiso, the Pinched events of this Saturday include a talk by Naked City editor Audacia Ray called Making Sex Media for a Radical Future, panel discussions, and a performance by Annie Sprinkle and Eliabeth Stephens.

Audacia Ray had some questions for Marije Janssen, the main organizer of the event, about the perceived progressiveness of Amsterdam, as well as the meld of commerce, culture, and porn that is a hot topic at the event.

Audacia Ray: What is the main inspiration for organizing the series of programming that is Pinched?
Marije Janssen: One of the main reasons for doing a project like Pinched is feeding the political and social discussion about sexuality (and porn) in the Netherlands. The funny thing with this country is that we have a reputation of being open-minded. Although this is true on the one hand, thinking of gay rights, the freedom of being who you want to be. But this open mind has not been ‘updated’ for a long time, even more so, currently you can see a development that’s going backwards. Something that’s underlined by the current conservative political climate and the rise of a feminist discussion that in some cases resembles the 70s in their thinking about porn and sex.

The development of the queer movement, alternatives in pornography, sex positive feminism, art, etc. are all things distant from Dutch discourse and experience. When I look at festival outside of the Netherlands, like the porn film festival in Berlin where it’s much more mixed I see that there are indeed possibilities to get people together and this inspired me to shake things up in the Netherlands as well. The people from Paradiso were very enthusiastic in realizing the Pinched events.

Three more questions and their answers after the jump.

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Veronica Monet's Many Facets

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Veronica Monet has made a career out of sex - in every sense of the word. One of her most recent projects is a video that combines sex, politics, a lecture about the sex industry, and her "signature" (her word) female ejaculation. You can see a non-explicit clip at Libido Films, where you can pay-per-view or purchase a DVD.

--Audacia Ray

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Vena Virago wraps Honey Bunny

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When you're both a pornographer and an artist, sometimes things can get a little pretentious. Unless you're Vena Virago, in which case your art will be fun and weird... and your porn films will be fun and weird. Vena just wrapped shooting her third feature-length porn film, called Honey Bunny (follow the link for more pictures). Instead of using the standard issue Porn Valley ranch house with overly-modern furniture, Vena shot the film inside the Circus Gallery, among the latest showing of her artwork. Clever!

--Audacia Ray

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Suzanne Portnoy on Being Mistaken for a Prostitute

suzanne.jpg Erotic memoirist Suzanne Portnoy writes about her doctor assuming that she's a prostitute, and what it means to be a voraciously sexual woman. You can also check out the Naked City interview with Suzanne here.

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Zoe Wilder: Where Body and Brains Meet

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Zoe Wilder is a relative newcomer to the sex nerd scene in New York, and she's got what it takes: she's gorgeous and has no qualms about getting naked for a camera, she's got academic inclinations, and she knows how to have fun.

Naked City editor Audacia Ray quizzed Zoe on the breadth of her professional experience in the world of sex: from dominatrix to erotic model to sex therapist in training.

Audacia Ray:What are the projects you're most excited about working on right now?
Zoe Wilder: I'm currently in graduate school working towards my MSW (Master of Social Work). This past semester I took a Social Welfare Policy course that got me really excited. I spent a great deal of the semester researching the history of prostitution policy in the United States and started to get involved in sex worker rights awareness. My interest in social welfare and advocacy in relation to topics surrounding sex has grown stronger than ever. I've been exploring different ways in which I can direct this energy to make change. In the past few months, my boyfriend and I have thrown several events called SpinSpinNYC. We teamed up with the Harm Reduction Coalition and $pread Magazine to raise money and awareness. Now that the semester is over and I have a little bit of spare time, I've spent it collaborating with different musicians. I've been in the studio with Mikey Beatz laying down vocals on house tracks. I'll also be collaborating with the band Psylab this summer doing improvisational shadow-dancing. In addition to all of this, I'm always on the prowl for the next fun photo shoot.

Three more questions and their answers, plus more photos, after the jump

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Ducky Doolittle: On Sex Ed and Her Personal Challenges of Growing Up

Ducky Doolittle is a true gem of a sex educator. She's warm, unpretentious, thoroughly knowledgeable, and has the cutest laugh, as you'll see in the above video. She also doesn't take health and sexuality for granted - as she touches on in this video, which was made for Current TV by Esther Bell. Ducky was born to a mother who was an addict, and her health and well-being were affected as a result. She talks a little bit about growing up dealing with these issues - and how the health challenges she overcame were intertwined with her sexuality.

Ducky teaches sexual skill-building workshops (sorry, not hands on) at the Museum of Sex on a regular basis, and travels extensively as well. Check out her schedule.

--Audacia Ray

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